There are many different ways that people have sex, each with its own unique significance. One of these is the threesome, which is an private matter that is often not talked about. Many people are curious about it, but there are also a number of misconceptions. It is often wrongly assumed that a threesome primarily involves two women and a man. According to a survey conducted by sexuality experts a few years ago, it was found that there are various forms of threesomes such as FFM (man-male-female), MMF, MMM or FFF forms.
Interestingly,people existed with such sexual fantasies and were hesitant to actually participate. But with the advent of dating apps, people could make time for each other to experience threesomes, causing their incidence to rise rapidly. Nowadays, society has softened its attitude towards threesomes and if you too want to pursue a threesome sex session, then there are some steps you need to understand.
Step 1: Find the right mate
To take part in a threesome, you need to find a partner who is right for you and shares your interests. Here are some ways to find a mate:
1. Online platforms and applications
Websites and forums about threesome sex can be searched on the internet. After entering the relevant online platforms, it is convenient to set your interests in your personal interface and then look for like-minded partners with you.
2. Attend community events in your location
At parties and events held in the community, you can interact with many people and easily find couples who are happy to participate in a threesome. Even if there isn’t, you can still go to more events that will allow you to meet the right person.
3. Seek professional help
If you can’t find a suitable partner both online and offline, you can spend some money on professional help. They will find a partner who is receptive to threesomes and enjoys the experience immensely, depending on your needs.
Step 2: Communicate beforehand
Once you have found the right partner, it is important to respect, understand and ask for their consent. You cannot resort to coercion and make the other person feel uncomfortable. You need to have good communication beforehand to ensure that all parties involved know their expectations, comfort levels and boundaries.Choose an appropriate time for the group to get together and focus on dialogue. Keep communication smooth during the process; the choices of the three people, boundaries, and the dynamics of the trio afterwards are all important topics to discuss. Ensure that no unpleasant situations arise during the threesome.
Step 3: Express ideas and inspiration
Once you’ve communicated beforehand, and after everyone has expressed no dissatisfaction or other requests, you can voice your ideas and inspirations. This is important, as many first-time threesomes usually forget to make their ideas clear, leading to them making a date and arriving with no idea what to do! So you can think about different sexual positions you could try during the process, or go to a sex shop and buy some erotic props to add some nice sexual experiences.
Step 4: Things you can do during threesome sex
There are some fun things you can do during threesome sex, such as trying new sex positions or using sex toys to add new sensations. This will give you an unrivalled feeling of excitement and experience novel pleasure.
1. Double penetration:
In MMF scenarios, many people are interested in trying double penetration, where a woman lies on top of a man and allows him to perform vaginal penetration while the man behind her holds the woman around the waist and performs anal penetration on her. If anal penetration is difficult, a rose vibrator can be used to help with penetration. In the F-F-M scenario, the man lies on his back and both women are in the woman-on-top position, with one woman riding on the man’s span for vaginal penetration and one woman sitting on the man’s face for cunnilingus and oral sex. In either case, double penetration allows all three to climax at the same time and experience pleasure together.
2. Oral sex
Oral sex can occur in a variety of forms, from double oral stimulation for one person, to multiple people giving oral sex at the same time as well as assisted oral sex using sex toys. Choosing to use rose toy for assisted oral sex can help people get into the mood faster and unlock new sensitive spots to explore in their partner. For example, in an MMF scene, it can be placed in a woman’s private area first to switch on a stronger sucking mode to give a female partner a quick orgasm for easier penetration.
3. Swapping partners
In a FFM or MMF scene, swapping partners during intercourse can lead to different experiences and excitement. Swapping partners allows each of the three to experience the ultimate thrill of being inside the other’s body, as well as the pleasure of bringing their own body to orgasm.
Step 5: Etiquette for a threesome
Experiencing a threesome can be an exciting and enjoyable experience, but there are some etiquette issues to be aware of. Firstly, everyone needs to be treated equally and everyone needs to be attended to and cared for. Try to give both partners equal attention so that no one feels left out. Secondly, make sure that you practice safe sex during the process. Use protection such as condoms and make sure that all participants are sexually healthy. Don’t forget to take care of each other physically and mentally afterwards.
Conclusion
Trio sex is a normal sexual behaviour, don’t give up the pursuit of sex in your heart because of the uncomprehending stares of the onlookers. If you are brave enough to pursue your own sexual enjoyment, try the above steps to experience the ultimate feeling of trio sex!
